THINK POSITIVE

It was an early summer hot noon and I was sitting after a hefty meal when I heard one of my friends shouting. His friend was making an apology for a small mistake that he had committed. He was trying to tell him about how it was not intentional and was just a mistake. But, my friend was going on and on shouting about his mistake and saying he should not have made one. Normally, I don’t interfere when two people are arguing but, this one was going on for quite some time. Seeing the pathetic condition of the other, I jumped in and tried to settle them down. It took quite a while before they settled down. Later in the evening when I was sipping a cup of tea, I remembered an incident wherein a friend of mine had made a serious mistake that had badly affected me. Although it was a big deal, he had me convinced that it was not intentional and I had forgiven him. It was none other than the same person who was not ready to forgive his friend. This made me think, Isn’t it in our n

It was in early November when my friend Vipin invited me to attend his wedding at Azamgarh which was on 16 th Feb. 2020. Since I did not want to miss his wedding, I had decided well in advance to attend it. My initial plans were for a couple of days and to fly in and out from Varanasi. But, it was nearly a year since I had been on a long tour. My last one was the amazing tour of Nepal in December 2018. Time had come for me to revitalize my mental well being, which I always get from traveling. So, I decided to avail a few more days of leave and visit the less explored North East of India. Two of my friends who were also invited decided to tag along. We obtained the Inner Line Permit (ILP) through online from the Arunachal State Govt. which was very hassle-free. We attended my friend’s wedding and spent a couple of days exploring Varanasi. Later, we arrived at Guwahati at 06.30 pm on 18 th Feb. Although, it was still evening the early sunset times of the North Eastern states

As I was having a conversation with a friend of mine, a question popped into my head when he said that he is not happy doing his current job and is doing it only for the sake of money. Is money really that important? – was the question. Immediately I asked him, “What would you like to do if money was no object. How would you enjoy spending your life?” He quickly replied, “I wanted to be a school teacher.” I was surprised because I never expected it from a friend who is a tech-savvy, spent almost a decade in the leading IT firm and who always seemed to be happy with his job. At that moment, he imagined his life as a teacher. Mere thinking of his life as a teacher brought a different kind of smile on his face, something that I had never seen before. It was a smile of content which vanished soon after he came back to reality. Are we all doing the things that we don’t want to, just for the sake of money. Why does money matter so much? I scratched my head for a couple