A Simple Snack, A Deep Lesson: Recognizing Our Privileges

On a pleasant Sunday evening, I was savoring Panipuri with a friend at a roadside stall. The spiciness of the ‘Paani’ had both my eyes and mouth watering, and I was thoroughly enjoying it. I even asked the vendor for another plate.

As I indulged in the crispy panipuris, I noticed a man walk up to the stall with his wife and three daughters. At first, I thought they were there for some snacks as well, but they stood across the road, while only two of the daughters approached the vendor with excitement. I assumed the parents weren’t interested in having any.

The older of the two daughters asked the vendor the price of Panipuri, and he replied, “Rs. 40 per plate.” In an instant, their excitement faded, replaced by polite smiles, and they returned to their father. Even though I was across the road, I could overhear their conversation. The father, shaking his head, said, “It’s too expensive,” and firmly declined. They all walked away, empty-handed.

Although the thought of helping crossed my mind, I hesitated. Offering help in front of his family, without them asking for it, felt like an invasion of their dignity.

Rs. 40 per plate x 4 members = Rs. 160/-

For most of us, spending Rs. 160 on a Sunday snack doesn’t feel like much. In fact, it might even be considered a bargain. But for this family, it was out of reach.

We often take for granted the ease with which we can get food. Whether we visit a place ourselves or order through Swiggy or Zomato, it’s something we rarely give a second thought, because we can afford it. Unfortunately, this is not the reality for everyone. For a large portion of India’s population, access to adequate and nutritious food is a daily struggle.

Many people can’t enjoy something as simple as eating out at a restaurant, a luxury that most of us take for granted. Dining out is often seen as a form of relaxation, socializing, or even convenience, but for so many, it’s not even a possibility. Even basic meals are often hard to come by.

In a country like India, where poverty and inequality are prevalent, many people lack the means to afford not just eating out, but even basic meals every day. It’s a sobering thought: while we have the freedom to choose where we eat, there are so many others who face the harsh reality of not having enough food, let alone the luxury of choosing where to dine.

Recognizing the privilege we have—like the ability to enjoy a meal outside—is an important reminder to appreciate what we have. We often get caught up in our daily struggles and desires for more, but taking a moment to reflect on the things we may overlook—like the freedom to choose where we eat—can help us develop a deeper sense of gratitude.

Life is filled with both big and small blessings, and sometimes all it takes is a pause to recognize them. This awareness not only makes us more appreciative of the present moment but also encourages compassion and a desire to give back. By recognizing our fortune, we can find ways to make a positive difference in the lives of others.

True gratitude lies in recognizing the blessings we often overlook.

Until next time... Ciao